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How to handle an abusive ex reaching out after the relationship ended
Hey all, As most of you know I have been out of my relationship for 3 years now. The first 3 months were filled with panic, fear, worry and stress of how I was going to make it. My ex did make it hard with a few mind games and scare tatics but after 3 months he stopped but …
Why I’m obsessed with January 1st
Hey all and Happy New Year! For this year I wish you all health, happiness, freedom and strength. let’s make this year the year we put ourselves first if possible and find little ways to make ourselves better. Being in an abusive relationship it may seem impossible but they can’t take everything from you. You still have your mind …
Happy Holidays!
Hi all, Today is the big day for some! Myself included. I live all year for this. It’s my favorite time of year. If you are in that space I hope you enjoy this magical time with friends and family. I also know that this time of year can be extremely difficult for some. I just want you guys …
Baby It’s Cold Outside: Creeper anthem or just a holiday classic
Hey all, It's that time of year again where everyone brings up this song and if it's the date rape theme song for all creepers. It's been debated over and over so I'm not going to get into all the arguments but more the take of a domestic violence victim. As someone who has been through some "stuff" I …

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